Three Women. Three Secrets. One Summer That Changes Everything.
Before We Were Women
A moving novel of resilience, sisterhood, and the courage to reclaim your voice.
About the Book
Before We Were Women is a moving contemporary women’s fiction novel that weaves together three extraordinary lives — each marked by secrets, loss, and the quiet determination to survive.
Anita Kumar was fifteen when shame stole her voice. Pregnant and afraid to disappoint her successful parents, she allowed others to decide her future — and her daughter’s. Years later, she buries her grief beneath competence, scanning every child’s face for the one she lost.
Born into wealth but raised in fear, Ashley Spady escapes a violent home only to find herself trapped in a cycle she doesn’t know how to break — until an unexpected diagnosis forces her to confront the truth about herself.
Adopted and blessed with an extraordinary memory, Robin Zymanski dreams of becoming a writer. But as questions about her origins deepen and her vision begins to fade, she must decide who she is when the future she imagined slips from view.
When their lives converge in the summer of 2009, these three women form an unlikely bond that reshapes their understanding of identity, forgiveness, and belonging.
Before We Were Women is a novel of resilience and sisterhood — about confronting the past, reclaiming your voice, and discovering that family can be found in the most unexpected places.
“Family can be found in the most unexpected places.”
Anita Kumar
At fifteen, shame silenced her. Decades later, she is still searching — for her daughter, for herself, for the courage to finally speak.
Ashley Spady
Born into privilege, she grew up in terror. Now free from the home that broke her, she must learn to break the cycle — before it's too late.
Robin Zymanski
Adopted. Gifted. Curious. As her sight fades and her past calls out, Robin must discover who she truly is before the life she dreamed of slips away.
Meet the Author
Sunita Reddy, M.D.
Sunita Reddy, M.D., is a practicing Obstetrician and Gynecologist who lives and works in Dayton, Ohio, with her husband and two sons. She currently serves at Kettering Medical Center. Before We Were Women is her debut novel.
As an OB-GYN, Dr. Reddy has a unique window into the complex, often invisible struggles her patients face every day — from teenage pregnancy and infertility to domestic violence and adoption. In their resilience and remarkable capacity for renewal, she finds inspiration to tell stories that matter.
In Before We Were Women, Dr. Reddy weaves these real-world issues into a tapestry of fiction, encouraging women to empower themselves and each other through kindness, connection, and the courage to keep going.
“Her patients demonstrate tremendous resilience as they rise above tough challenges to better their lives through sisterhood, family support, and new medical technologies.”
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A Glimpse Inside the Pages
Step into a world of three women whose lives are more connected than they ever imagined. Here is a taste of Before We Were Women:
“Anita Kumar was fifteen when shame stole her voice. Pregnant and afraid to disappoint her successful parents, she allowed others to decide her future — and her daughter’s. Years later, she buries her grief beneath competence, scanning every child’s face for the one she lost.”
“Born into wealth but raised in fear, Ashley Spady escapes a violent home only to find herself trapped in a cycle she doesn’t know how to break — until an unexpected diagnosis forces her to confront the truth about herself.”
“Adopted and blessed with an extraordinary memory, Robin Zymanski dreams of becoming a writer. But as questions about her origins deepen and her vision begins to fade, she must decide who she is when the future she imagined slips from view.”
“When their lives converge in the summer of 2009, these three women form an unlikely bond that reshapes their understanding of identity, forgiveness, and belonging…”
— Before We Were Women, Sunita Reddy, M.D.
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What Readers Are Saying
★★★★★
A beautifully written debut that left me in tears and full of hope. The three women felt so real — I saw myself in each of them.
John Doe
★★★★★
Dr. Reddy brings a rare authenticity to the page. This novel is important, tender, and absolutely unforgettable.”
Jessica Smith
★★★★★
I couldn’t put it down. The characters are so layered and the story so human. A must-read for every woman.
Steve Rogers
Perfect for Your Book Club
Before We Were Women is a rich, emotionally layered novel that sparks powerful conversations. Whether your group meets in person or online, these questions will guide a meaningful and memorable discussion.
Discussion Questions
- Each of the three women carries a secret. How do secrets shape identity and relationships in this novel?
- How does the novel explore the concept of "chosen family"? Where do you see it reflected in your own life?
- Anita's shame silences her for years. Have you ever felt silenced by circumstances? How did you find your voice again?
- Ashley escapes one form of harm only to find herself in another cycle. What does the novel say about patterns and healing?
- Robin's fading vision becomes a metaphor for uncertainty about the future. How does she grow through this challenge?
- The summer of 2009 is a turning point for all three women. What does the summer season symbolize in the story?
- Dr. Reddy is an OB-GYN who writes about real issues she witnesses. How does her professional background shape the authenticity of the novel?
- Which character resonated with you most and why?
- The novel ends with a message of hope and belonging. Did the ending satisfy you? What would you have changed?
- What does the title "Before We Were Women" mean to you?
Interested in having the author join your book club virtually? We’d love to arrange a special Q&A with Sunita Reddy, M.D. — Contact us below to inquire about availability.
What Our Readers Say
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Siri Rekula
Heart touching, deeply moving, heart touching story.
This is a masterfully written heartwarming story of three women across different decades who ultimately come together to find profound purpose in their lives.Reading this book felt incredibly personal, deeply emotional, and touching. The author tackles heavy, vital real-world issues—including teenage pregnancy, domestic violence, living with disabilities, breaking rigid cultural norms, and the fierce pursuit of dreams—with extraordinary grace, sensitivity, and beauty.The narrative is deep, profound, and thought-provoking, staying with you long after you turn the final page. This is a story that resonates with the soul. I highly recommend it!
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Nishika Reddy
An excellent debut novel
This is a well written book delving into the parallel trajectories of three women. The book is engaging, compelling and descriptive. The story arcs of each protagonist are fascinating to read. The author has taken the time to give the reader a clear understanding of each character. Hope, fortitude and fellowship are the qualities that Anita, Ashley and Robin possess.
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Sreddy
Excellent!
Couldn’t put it down. I stayed up until almost midnight to finish it one sitting. The three women felt so real, and their stories pulled me in completely. A moving, hopeful debut about resilience and finding family in unexpected places. Highly recommend.
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Suresh Reddy
Very moving
An extraordinary masterpiece that brilliantly intertwines three women’s unique journeys, cultures, aspirations, and challenges into a deeply moving, inspiring, and unforgettable story.Read More -
Laurie B
An Excellent, Heartfelt Read!
Before We Were Women is a beautifully written novel with memorable characters and an engaging story that kept me turning the pages. Sunita Reddy does an excellent job of weaving together themes of family, identity, resilience, and the connections between generations in a way that feels both authentic and heartfelt.I especially enjoyed how vividly the settings and characters came to life. The relationships felt genuine, and I found myself invested in each character's journey. It's the kind of book that encourages reflection while still being an enjoyable read.
For a debut novel, this is an impressive achievement. If you enjoy historical fiction and family-centered stories with emotional depth, I highly recommend Before We Were Women. I'll be looking forward to reading what Sunita Reddy writes next.
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Raji
Well woven, beautiful contemporary story
A wonderful debut novel! A heartwarming contemporary story of three women who find each other for support. Really enjoyed reading it❤️
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SR
Characters and settings feel real!
Many interesting twists keep the story engaging.
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Mason Chambal
"Wonderful debut novel..."
Hardcover
Wonderful debut novel tying together the nuances and details of medicine with the intricacies of life, slowly bringing together three women by showing their tortuous paths from birth to the present day with chance encounters, shared loves, and bound by secrets no one else knows.Read More -
Amazon Man Miller
"A new read for book clubs"
Hardcover
This is a great read about many of the issues that women face throughout their lifetime. The past and present are intertwined to allow for the development of the 3 main characters. This book would allow many points of discussion for book club enthusiasts.Read More -
SDR
"Engaging!" Paperback
Beautifully written. Engaging story.Read More -
AG
"An Emotional and Compelling Read"
Paperback
The story is beautifully written, with characters that feel authentic, complex, and deeply human. What I appreciated most was how emotionally honest the novel is. The complex challenges faced by all three characters felt relatable, and the author conveyed them with remarkable subtlety and quiet emotional power. Highly recommended!Read More -
MP
"Wonderful story of hardship and triumph!"
Paperback
This is a poignant book about 3 women with different challenges in their lives and the paths they took to overcome them. Beautifully written by a physician who has touched many women's lives! Worth the read!Read More -
Allan P.
"Before We Were Women by Sunita Reddy"
Kindle
I absolutely loved the book. It was written with such detail that I felt like I knew the women. Over the week I read it the women felt like my friends. I couldn't wait to see what happened next. It took difficult situations and turned them into positives. I struggle with a chronic illness and it inspired me to turn lemons into lemonade. Thank you Sunita for bring light an often dark subject. The book was very upbeat and a nice summer read.Read More -
Vish
"Excellent book, worth reading."
Paperback
Beautifully written journeys of women involving cultural aspects, ambitious goals, and emotional challenges. It is a deeply moving story that inspires the readers.Read More -
Trisha Khambadkone
Intriguing
I really enjoyed reading the book. The story is very realistic and gripping read from start to finish.Read More -
Beeravolu
Absolutely stunning — I couldn't put it down!
I read this book with a lot of interest and came away thoroughly impressed. The way the author weaves the story together — connecting the threads of all three characters, and especially how Elena is brought into the narrative and the bigger picture — is really wonderful. The emotional depth is captured so well that I found myself teary-eyed during several passages, especially the adoption scene.
The writing itself is remarkable. This reads like the work of a seasoned novelist, not a debut author. I've already recommended it to family and friends.Read More -
Arpan
TWO THUMBS UP!
A truly well thought out and written book by a debutant author.Beautifully written story about women in different phases of their lives, both trapped and liberated by culture, the modern day world and circumstances, some of their own making and some completely out of their control. Independently weaved but come together they all do . A deep dive into a myriad emotions the author takes you, leaving the reader in thoughtful reflection. Heartwarming but
chick flick it ain’t.The author is not weighed down by heavy prose and neither are you, and therefore not exhausting. Simple, straightforward, satisfying. Very satisfying. TSPKRead More -
Sharmi
Great Book- Enjoyed Reading it!
“Before We Were Women” is a beautifully written and moving debut novel. Having known Sunita personally, it is especially wonderful to see her warmth, depth, and sensitivity come through in her writing. She brings her characters to life with honesty and emotional richness. The story captures friendship, womanhood, memory, and the quiet strength women carry through life. It feels both personal and universal, and it stayed with me after I finished reading. A heartfelt and impressive debut.
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Rick Shaw
"Must Read Book! Fantastic!"
Paperback
Amazing piece of literature!
So well written, riveting.
Couldn't put it down.
Not just for women… it's for everyone.
Very easy to read, convenient short chapters.. but they touch the heart…Loved her command of the English language..
Her attention to detail in describing a scene, or an emotion is amazing…
Her understanding of historical facts, of differing cultures is amazing…
Her in depth study of geography, of location, is amazing.
Her knowledge of the music scene from a few decades ago is amazing
Her understand of the arts and architecture, of Broadway, her knowledge of other books is vast. She has even researched bygone era treats like Sunshine Hydrox cookies and space candy! Like a dictionary, she finds words like quinquagenary and hurkle-durkle, but she puts it in a matter of fact way without sounding like an English teacher..
Describing the sporting world, music .. wow
She beautifully merges fiction with historical fact…Amazing! You will not be disappointed.
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